just a thought.

In this life, we meet a number of and face innumerable situations. In all those times, our reaction is usually, spontaneous, right/wrong. I feel that whatever we are , wherever we may go it is essential to observe the surroundings/environment and watch people. Adults and children should understand and strive to cultivate the habit of learning from each individual/experience/situation . Learning not only means what to do,how to do, how to act, how to speak ,how to react, but also includes learning what not to do, how not to be, how not to act , how not to speak and how not to react. In this world where Darwin's theory of "survival of the fittest" works. At every point of time silent observation will provide us the insight to handle things. Too much of credence to others opinion and thought,somehow sucks out our individuality. We should strive to act and behave, as we feel right and not as the society wants. I do not think that it is essential for a person to justify each and every stand or act he/she takes. This is applicable to all people irrespective of caste/creed/gender. In my twenty years of service, interaction and association with people belonging to both sexes and various strata of society, I feel that everyday is a lesson to me. I find a lot of qualities in my friends and associates which I want to cultivate and have failed and I do not want to cultivate but may have absorbed. No body has the authority to make judgements or become the moral police of another. Everything is relative and depends on the perspective of the viewer . No person can judge an act of another as right or wrong. It all depends on the situation, the mindset of that person, his ideas, needs or whatever.